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Why Small Groups?

We were created to be relational beings.

Genesis 2:18 records the first negative words of God. Before creating the woman, He said of Adam, “It is not good for the man to be alone.” God had created people who were not complete without other people in their lives.

Genesis 1:27 says “…in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.” The Trinitarian God can rightly be defined as a unity with diversity. The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit function uniquely in different roles, however they are perfectly united as one God. People, therefore, image God when they are unified while embracing diversity. The greatest picture of this concept happens in marriage, when men and women become one flesh without giving up their uniqueness.

Jesus confirmed our need to live in relationship with others while sharing the last supper with His disciples. John 13:34 records Jesus’ instructions. He said, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”

10 Commandments for Leading Discussion

1. Prepare “good” questions prior to the meeting
2. Create a climate of acceptance
3. Actively listen to each person
4. Affirm all legitimate expressions of opinion from your group members
5. “Peel the Onion” with questions
6. Be careful about taking sides in a “debate”
7. Allow for humor and rabbit trails
8. Don’t be afraid of silence
9. Avoid discussion KILLERS
10. Be a facilitator, not an expert

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One In Christ

i've never made a secret of the idea that one of my favorite authors is james m. boice. his commentaries are a staple of my Bible study diet, and his Foundations of the Christian Faith is my systematic theology of choice.

so this week, i've been reading his writings on the church and as always, the highlighter is going crazy. but a couple things he said, worked in with the justice and mercy thoughts that are marinating on my back burner. so i thought i'd share those here:

The church must actually develop brotherhood, a sense of family oneness, among those to whom the gospel spreads. Many barriers to such a union existed in the early church. There were barriers of race - the Greek despising the Roman, the Roman contemptuous of the Greek. There were barriers of nationhood - most captive people chafing under the yoke of Rome. There were barriers of sex, language, and culture - the same barriers that exist among people today. But they were broken down as those who were called to faith in Christ increasingly came to see their oneness in him. "For he is our peace, who has made us both [Jews and Gentiles] one, and has broken down the dividing wall of hostility" (Eph.2:14) To the Corinthians, Paul wrote, "God...through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation." (2Cor.5:18)

He quotes Martin Lloyd-Jones:

"We are all equally sinners...we are all equally helpless...we have all come to the same Savior...we have the same salvation...we have the same Holy Spirit...we have the same Father...we even have the same trials...And finally, we are all marching and going together to the same eternal home."
Posted by David Rudd at 12:20 PM

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