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Why Small Groups?

We were created to be relational beings.

Genesis 2:18 records the first negative words of God. Before creating the woman, He said of Adam, “It is not good for the man to be alone.” God had created people who were not complete without other people in their lives.

Genesis 1:27 says “…in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.” The Trinitarian God can rightly be defined as a unity with diversity. The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit function uniquely in different roles, however they are perfectly united as one God. People, therefore, image God when they are unified while embracing diversity. The greatest picture of this concept happens in marriage, when men and women become one flesh without giving up their uniqueness.

Jesus confirmed our need to live in relationship with others while sharing the last supper with His disciples. John 13:34 records Jesus’ instructions. He said, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”

10 Commandments for Leading Discussion

1. Prepare “good” questions prior to the meeting
2. Create a climate of acceptance
3. Actively listen to each person
4. Affirm all legitimate expressions of opinion from your group members
5. “Peel the Onion” with questions
6. Be careful about taking sides in a “debate”
7. Allow for humor and rabbit trails
8. Don’t be afraid of silence
9. Avoid discussion KILLERS
10. Be a facilitator, not an expert

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Thinking Missionally

As we consider different ideas and possibilities for being missional in community, here are some more ideas. As far as I know the author of this article is not a Christian, but these are still great ideas for sharing Christ's love with others. These may also be great ideas for groups with people who may not be able to get out and do physical projects.

Read the whole article here.

Here are the highlights:
  • Become a virtual mentor. In less than a half an hour a week, you can mentor kids and teens through the internet. Help young people set goals, learn study skills, deal home or school issues, and plan for a happy future. Encourage teens interested in your profession through I Could Be. Encourage kids to be successful in school through Achievement Advocate. Or, encourage foster children through Vmentor.
  • Send supplies to a rural family. Many families in rural America struggle to provide their children with the necessities of life. Project Box connects sponsor volunteers with families that really need the help. Each month, send your family a box of much-needed supplies that you choose and ship yourself. For example, you might decide to mail school supplies or a small present for a child’s birthday. Get to know your family through their monthly letters, help them overcome poverty, and encourage them to have the best lives possible.
  • Send cards to sick kids. All it takes is paper and a stamp to put a smile on the face of a sick child. Hugs and Hope provides volunteers with brief biographies of sick kids as well as postal addresses and email addresses. Many of the children have terminal illnesses and reading an uplifting note from a hospital bed could brighten their day.
  • Use a charity shopping portal. You buy stuff online anyway – by enrolling in a charity shopping portal program, the website will donate a percent of your purchases to the charity of your choice. You don’t pay an extra dime. Check out Greater Good and iGive.
  • Encourage a foster kid in college. College can be a tough time for anyone. But, it’s especially challenging for orphaned students who don’t have a family to set an example and offer support. Through an Orphans of America program, you can help brighten a lonely student’s day. Send a card with an uplifting message, a book of stamps, or a gift card.

Don't Forget, this is a part of 100+, we want to hear your story!
Posted by David Rudd at 7:18 AM

1 comments:

Missional Jerry said...
12:44 PM

Try

http://www.family-to-family.org/

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