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Why Small Groups?

We were created to be relational beings.

Genesis 2:18 records the first negative words of God. Before creating the woman, He said of Adam, “It is not good for the man to be alone.” God had created people who were not complete without other people in their lives.

Genesis 1:27 says “…in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.” The Trinitarian God can rightly be defined as a unity with diversity. The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit function uniquely in different roles, however they are perfectly united as one God. People, therefore, image God when they are unified while embracing diversity. The greatest picture of this concept happens in marriage, when men and women become one flesh without giving up their uniqueness.

Jesus confirmed our need to live in relationship with others while sharing the last supper with His disciples. John 13:34 records Jesus’ instructions. He said, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”

10 Commandments for Leading Discussion

1. Prepare “good” questions prior to the meeting
2. Create a climate of acceptance
3. Actively listen to each person
4. Affirm all legitimate expressions of opinion from your group members
5. “Peel the Onion” with questions
6. Be careful about taking sides in a “debate”
7. Allow for humor and rabbit trails
8. Don’t be afraid of silence
9. Avoid discussion KILLERS
10. Be a facilitator, not an expert

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It Takes a Small Group

by Esther Bailey

Pictures of impoverished children tug at our hearts. Too often, though, the image fades before we take action, or other financial demands claim our attention. Why not sponsor a child as a group project? By making your commitment as a group, no one needs to shoulder a financial burden, and you are more likely to be faithful in prayer for your child.

To sign up, contact World Vision (888-511-6592), Christian Children's Fund (800-776-6767), Save the Children (800-728-3843), Mission of Mercy (800-864-0200), or Compassion International (800-336-7676). Some programs allow you to choose a child on the basis of age, sex, or country of residence. You can receive a picture and a biographical sketch of the child you choose.

Even minimal involvement will help your group bond with someone in another part of the world. When you receive a letter from your child, or a progress report, you might want to do further study of the area where your child lives. The more you learn, the easier it will be to pray for your child's needs. You may even decide to sponsor more than one child.

(Editor's Note: Before making this commitment discuss as a group how you will handle the sponsorship should your group disband.)

-from Discipleship Journal, Sept/Oct 2001, Issue #125
Posted by Jacquie Sandison at 9:33 AM

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